I think that letting people pick who they don't want is discriminating personally. You can send a list of who you swap with a lot sure but really is there a monitor on who is just picking who they think wont send good packages? that is amazing you got that by Patricej. She is highly against discrimination and this is truly a thing that I would reconsider. its not fair. Just my humble opinion. I run swaps. its the law of averages you will get someone you swap with before. There are a limited number of us who swap. It supposed to be fun not picking on people. Wrong. that's all I can say. Wrong.