I generally target my donations towards older foster kids and transitioning families and much prefer groups that let people select the quilt they want. You could be entranced or horrified depending on what project of mine you get, but someone will appreciate what I make. And at least they are warm and don't have to be seen.
Different groups have different requirements. I donate with no labels. Once it is donated it is out of my hands and largely my mind.
My hope while I am making the project is that for 15 minutes at least the recipient will feel special and cared for... my time and materials are worth that small comfort.