I had a cat that had one kitten and she abandoned it at birth. I had to bottle feed him. You can get baby bottles at the vet and even a formular. I used diluted canned milk and he survided and was a huge cat. I took him everywhere I went in his box (crib)and changed the flannel blankets (flannel scraps) when he peed the bed. I even had to set the clock at night to get up and giving him his feedings. It was just like caring for a baby but they start eating by themselves allot sooner so even though hectic at the beginning it don't last any longer then it takes for them to learn to eat by themselves. Good luck, maybe your friends and family would be glad to help you.