d.rickman

You could make her a lap quilt, and attach some squares which are actually pockets, making the closures with zippers, buttons, ribbon ties, shoe laces, velcro, snaps, etc., this is also called a fidget blanket, where she can put kleenex, hankies, and other things that she would like to have close at hand, this also keeps fingers busy and keeps their mind active in remembering where they have placed various things, along with opening and closing the pockets.

nstitches4u

Sadly, things go missing even when they are labeled with the resident's name. It seems like every time I took my mother new clothes or a lap quilt, they ended up missing. When I talked to the nursing home manager, she said, "Oh, we just give them to whoever needs them most." I told her that I was buying/making these things for my mother and I wanted her to have them. I also make charity quilts for nursing homes. Anyway, long story short, I moved mom into a very nice private nursing home not far from where we live and had no more problems. They took very good care of her until her death almost 4 years ago.

novicequiltergrandma

Although many in assisted living are still very active, the "norm" is a feeling of just waiting to die and feeling very useless (don't ask how I know this). I think sending her pictures of things you've made with "her" machine and your joy in using it would be so much more meaningful. Let her know, in whatever gift you send, that she has made a difference in your life and you think of her often when you sew. Knowing she has made a difference in your life will warm her heart and mean more than just about anything else. Having said all that.....I think an armchair organizer would be very much appreciated (or walker bag IF you know she is already using a walker).

dorismae904

After visiting my dislike in the nursing home at lunch time, I realized some sort of clothing protector(bib) would be handy. I bought a hand towel and cut an oval shape for the neckline and used squares of Velcro to fasten it in the back. She liked it so much, didn't use the Velcro just laid it up under her chin. Was long enough to prevent any spills. I did not label it but for the next one, I will.

dorismae904

After reading novice quilter, I agree with her idea. The lady will be so glad to see her machine is loved and being used.

joy

A lap quilt would be ideal... however, how about a toilet bag... !!! Or both....!!!

sewbizgirl

A tissue box cover and mug rug would be nice. I agree that lots of pictures of what you are making on the machine, and keeping in touch, would be the best gifts you could give.

bearisgray

I think keeping up a relationship with her by letter and/or card would be something she might appreciate as much or more than getting some more things. She might enjoy seeing photos of things you've made on that machine. I treasure written thank you notes.

Most people have to drastically downsize when they move into assisted living - so even well-meaning things can become clutter.

caspharm

Another idea is what I think is called a "Shoulder Cozy." This one I found on Nancy's Notions (http://www.nancysnotions.com/jump.do...shoulders),but I remember seeing one somewhere that was actually a quilt made in a similar design.

CookyIN

You've already got plenty of great ideas. I'd just like to commend you for being so thoughtful. I'm sure this lady will be very appreciative that her beloved machine has found itself in good hands being well-loved and well-used.